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Barren women, male soldiers most eligible marriage partners in Kano – Matchmakers

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Sabiu Kabuga

Barren women and male soldiers are the most eligible marriage partners in Kano state according to matchmakers.

Kano Focus reports that women who own houses and rich businessmen are the next most eligible category.

A matchmaker, Amina Ahmad of Sani Mainagge Kano city said barren women are most eligible because men fear the burden of catering for children.

Ms Ahmad who has been a matchmaker for 43 years said her female clients prefer soldiers and other paramilitary personnel.

Amina Ahmad - Matchmaker

Amina Ahmad – Matchmaker

“Most men now demand for barren women to marry.

“Apart from barren women, the male clients also look for women who own houses.

“The female clients look for men in uniform such as customs and immigration officers but they prefer soldiers.” Ms Ahmad said

The matchmaker said due to so much demand, she had to invite soldiers from Bukavu Barracks, Kano.

“They were very excited and came to my house to meet the women.

“However most of them were old and my clients prefer young soldiers.” She said.

Another matchmaker, Shu’aibu Rabi’u confirms to Kano Focus that male suitors prefer barren women.

Shu’aibu Rabi’u -Matchmaker

Mr Rabiu, who is the chairman Kano state association of matchmakers, said barren women are most eligible for two reasons.

“Some men have a strong libido but the fear of conception prevents them from frequent intercourse.

“And some don’t want to have children because they already have enough from other women.” Mr Rabiu said.

He said matchmakers determine a barren woman based on her marital history.

“A divorced woman whose former co-wives had children with her ex-husband is deemed to be barren.” Mr Rabiu said.

How the process works

Some matchmakers collect a fixed amount from their clients while others vary the price.

Ms Ahmad says she charges both male and female clients N1,000 only.

“And if they get married I also collect anything the couple gives me as a gift.” Ms Ahmad said.

However Mr Rabiu charges male clients N2,000 while female clients pay N3,000 only.

“But those men seeking women that own houses pay N5,000 fees.” He said.

Mr Rabiu adds that after the marriage he collects one piece of African Print, soap, cream, and a percentage of the bridal price.

He however said there are matchmakers that collect up to N50,000 from clients before they connect them with their desired spouse.

We are not pimps

Mr Rabiu said the major challenge of the matchmaking business is insincere suitors.

“Sometimes we get clients who want to use us as pimps.

“When we connect them with marriage partners they end up propositioning them.

“So I always advise my female clients to report such men to me.

“I have a way of dealing with them.” Mr Rabiu said.

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President Tinubu mourns Galadiman Kano, Abbas Sanusi

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Nasiru Yusuf Ibrahim

 

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has expressed grief over the passing of Alhaji Abbas Sanusi, the Galadiman Kano and senior Kano Emirate official.

KANO FOCUS reports that Abbas Sanusi died at 92 after a protracted illness. Many children and grandchildren survive him.

Among his children is Alhaji Abdullahi Abbas, the Kano State chairman of the All Progressives Congress (APC).

In a statement issued on Wednesday by Special Adviser to the President Information and Strategy Bayo Onanuga President Tinubu described the deceased as a strong pillar of the traditional institution, its survival and development.

The President said the services of the late Sanusi, a titleholder since 1959, would be appreciated far beyond Kano Emirate and Kano State.

President Tinubu condoled with the government and people of Kano State, the Kano Emirate Council and the family of the late chief for the irreparable loss.

The President prayed to Allah to admit the Galadima in Jannatul Firdaus and comfort the family.

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Edo, Kano Governors Visit Torankawa Community, Assure Justice for Uromi Victims

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Kano State Governor, Alhaji Abba Kabir Yusuf, alongside his Edo State counterpart, Governor Monday Okpebholo, on Monday visited the Torankawa community in Kano to commiserate with the families of the 16 victims brutally killed in Uromi, Edo State.

The visit, which brought together key government officials and community leaders, was aimed at reassuring the affected families of the government’s commitment to securing justice and providing necessary support.

In a statement issued by his spokesperson, Sanusi Bature Dawakin Tofa, Governor Yusuf expressed deep sorrow over the tragic loss and reiterated his demand for the swift prosecution of those responsible.

He also emphasized the importance of ensuring that similar incidents do not occur in the future.

“This visit is not just about condolence; it is about reaffirming our commitment to justice. The families of these victims deserve more than words—they deserve action. We will not rest until every perpetrator is brought to book, publicly paraded, and held accountable,” Governor Yusuf stated.

He further urged the Edo State Government to expedite the promised compensation for the victims’ families, emphasizing that the loss of breadwinners had left many households in distress.

On his part, Governor Okpebholo extended his heartfelt condolences, assuring the families that his administration was working tirelessly with security agencies to ensure justice is served.

“I want to personally assure you that we are treating this case with the urgency it deserves. Edo is home to all Nigerians, and this kind of violence will not be tolerated. The security agencies have made significant progress, and I assure you that justice will be swift,” Governor Okpebholo said.

Community leaders in Torankawa expressed gratitude for the visit, acknowledging that it had helped ease tensions and restore confidence in the government’s commitment to their welfare.

Governor Yusuf reaffirmed that his administration would continue to follow up on the case until justice is fully served.

In his response, His Highness Amb. Muhammad Isa Umar, the emir of Kano on behalf of the community, appreciated the two Governors for thier proactiveness in handling the unfortunate incidence.

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Edo Killings: Gov Okpebholo visits Kano, pledges compensation for travelers

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Edo Killings: Gov Okpebholo visits Kano, pledges compensation for travelers

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Governor Monday Okpebholo, accompanied by Governor Abba Kabir Yusuf, paid condolence visit to the families of the 16 northern travelers killed in Uromi, Edo State.

KANO FOCUS reports that youths and women on Monday took to the streets in Bunkure Local Government Area, welcoming the visiting governor accompanied by governor of Kano.

At Torankawa, Governor Okpebholo assured the families that compensation would be provided and reiterated his commitment to ensuring that justice is served.

On his part, Governor Yusuf pledged cash assistance and food supplies to the affected families, though he did not specify the exact amounts or quantities.

Both governors reaffirmed their commitment to ensuring that the perpetrators are brought to justice and that such incidents do not occur again.

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